Dear Annie:
This note is in regard to “Bummer Friend,” who wrote in about her negative friend who lives alone, lost her leg and has limited ability to go out. It sounds like this woman could be severely depressed and could greatly benefit from professional counseling and perhaps antidepressants.
Depression can express itself in many forms, including anger, withdrawal and negativity. Also, asking the negative friend if she felt depressed might open an easier pathway to discuss her behavior and communication style and potential benefits of therapy.
Thank you from a loyal reader! — Another Idea
Dear Another Idea:
Something like losing a leg can indeed trigger depression, and I appreciate you writing in to draw attention to that very likely possibility. It’s also always helpful to come from a place of concern — such as inquiring about a loved one’s health, whether it be mental or physical — rather than accusation when you hope to change someone’s behavior. Thank you for writing in.
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