Dear Annie:
What is the etiquette for items left behind after a party? Is it my responsibility as a host to find the owners of the items and deliver them? What is an acceptable time frame?
We host several family events during the year at our home, and there are always a few items that our guests leave behind. Sometimes I send out a photo to all guests of the lost and found pile or will follow up individually when I know who the item belongs to. Sometimes I have no idea who it belongs to, and it stays in our garage in a lost and found pile, seemingly never to be claimed.
When I reach out to let people know what was left behind, some will apologize (no apology is needed); some will respond in a way that makes me feel that I should have told them sooner than a few days later; and some still don’t initiate arrangements to come pick up the items. Is it on me as the host to deliver items left behind? Should I just assume the guest will contact me if it is important enough to them? — Lost and Found
Dear Lost and Found:
Sending one text or email is a nice courtesy, but it certainly is not on you to deliver items that your guests have left behind. If nobody claims the missing item, you can send a message saying, “I will be donating everything that has been left behind at the end of the month, so please claim what’s yours!” That way, your guests have a chance to retrieve their belongings and you aren’t forced to serve as anyone’s storage unit.
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