Citywide, approximately 1.7 million New Yorkers under the age of 18 have grappled or will have to grapple with what can be an incredibly awkward time: puberty.
In their new book, “This Is So Awkward: Modern Puberty Explained,” authors Dr. Cara Natterson and Vanessa Kroll Bennett discuss the science behind the awkward years, which now last longer and start earlier for the average kid than they did just a generation ago.
“Puberty lasts almost a decade now, as opposed to the three or four awkward years that most adults think of,” said Kroll Bennett. She said the book is designed to help parents with children ages 8 to 18.
“This Is So Awkward” offers grownups advice about how to talk through potentially tricky topics with kids, such as a first period, porn and more.
The book’s overarching philosophy – whether it’s how to discuss porn or basic hygiene with kids – is that it’s never too early and it’s never too late to start these conversations.
“Just gauge the content of the conversation to the kid who’s in front of you and just start talking,” Natterson said on a recent episode of WNYC’S “All of It.” If you try one way and you hit a dead end, that’s OK. You have many years, try another.”
The book is full of data, personal stories and practical tips to help parents handle conversations about puberty. We caught up with local author Kroll Bennett, to discuss challenges of growing up in New York City, and how grownups can help kids navigate this life phase.
Academic pressure starts young in NYC.
Many kids across the country experience the pressure cooker of college admissions, but in New York City, competition for school seats can start as early as preschool, with limited spots in some programs.
Starting in kindergarten, some kids deal with applications to (and potential rejection from) programs like Gifted & Talented, and later, middle and high school.
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Kroll Bennett said children and parents need to first define what a pathway to…
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