DEAR ABBY: I was invited to a child’s birthday party that included the adults in the family, and was given specifics about what time to arrive, etc. I arrived on time. As I started to put out the food I had brought (after spending hours shopping and preparing it) the hostess told me in front of the guests that there was too much food and to put mine away. I complied because it was the mannerly thing to do.
The next day, her husband asked me whether it had made me feel “sour” in a way that suggested that had been the intent. What would you do to maintain dignity? I had absolutely no idea what to do. — CONFUSED AND HURT IN THE EAST
DEAR C&H: You handled the situation properly. Because of what the husband said, have a discussion with the hostess and ask what it was all about.
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