Dear Annie: When your children have the spotlight, pay attention

Dear Annie: I want to comment on the letter from the retired youth sports coach who wrote in about parents being glued to their phones during their kidsโ€™ events. He couldnโ€™t have been more correct.

My stepdaughter participated in a youth dance clinic with our collegeโ€™s dance team when she was around 8 years old. They performed during halftime at the college basketball game.

Her grandmother (my mother-in-law) came with us to watch, but she spent most of the performance texting someone, with her attention on her phone. My stepdaughter saw this as she looked up to us and thankfully saw her dad and I clapping and smiling at her, but the first thing she said was, โ€œGram was looking at her phone and missed my dancing.โ€ Sheโ€™s 21 now and still remembers it. — A Proud Kentucky Stepmom

Dear Proud Kentucky Stepmom: Thank you for your letter. While putting away your phone during childrenโ€™s activities can seem like a difficult task, I hope your letter serves as a reminder for all parents to try to be more mindful of when they are looking down at their phones and not engaging with life as it is. Your kids will notice and will remember.

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